Have you ever met someone that right from the start you hit it off with? The interaction just flowed and you were not doing anything but being who you are. You laughed, smoked, told jokes, told stories and for just a fleeting moment you thought, "Wow this person is so cool." In that moment you are experiencing something so diverse and mystical that scientists have devoted their lives to providing exists. What is that thing? It's chemistry ….
In its simplest definition, chemistry is the interaction of one personality with another. In science when two chemicals interact we know that it can have an explosive results and the same is true when it comes to dating. Before we explore what dating chemistry is we must understand what it is not.
Chemistry is NOT just attraction …
Attraction is something you can generate in another person by banter, role-play, fun, touching and other playful activities. Chemistry is not something you do to another person it is something you have with them. In attraction you are doing actions and generating a feeling from the person, with chemistry you are not "doing" anything but you build a connection. you are trying to generate attraction you are doing actions that cause an emotional reaction in the other person.
Attraction is about doing, chemistry is about being …
Attraction is something you can generate in most people you meet; chemistry is something you find in a very rare amount of people. Just because you have similar personalities and get along does not mean you found "the one." Since we understand the differences between attraction and chemistry we should break down the types of chemistry people can have.
The way I see it, there are two types of chemistry, Personal and Sexual.
Personal Chemistry is all about your personalities. Do you have similar personality traits and commonalities? Personal chemistry is finding a person who you connect with based on who you are to the core. Personal chemistry is much deeper then commonalities like "we both enjoy the same music." Personal chemistry is a longing or drawing to each other based on personalities. This is often mystical to people because they might not know what it is about that person but they just seem so cool. This type of chemistry is often confused for attraction because of its mystical nature. There is no doubt that mystery cause of attraction and often times the root of the mystery is that people do not understand that they have personal chemistry and that have developed feelings of attraction.
Attraction can be created by chemistry but chemistry can never be created by attraction because chemistry is revealed and attraction is created.
Sexual chemistry is a draw to each other sexually. Sexual chemistry is more than just a want for your partner; it is a compatibility with each other's fantasies. If oral sex is important to you but she does not want to perform it much and is really not into it …